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Out of the Ordinary

I remember in my early 20s having the sense that to live a ‘normal’ life would be a lacklustre existence.

Striving to create something bigger drove me to ground again and again. Though outwardly I appeared to have an interesting, creative life, I was too often exhausted and confused, wondering when I would relax into the satisfying plateau of my Arrival, and enjoy myself.

It wasn’t until glossy work and health fell away, fruitful endeavours became overripe and financial stability disappeared that I emerged – floundering – in the wake of ‘normal’. 

There was no denying I had chosen this place. And it felt Less than even ‘normal’.

Luna Park – colourful chaos anyone?

It wasn’t until glossy work and health fell away, fruitful endeavours became overripe and financial stability disappeared that I emerged floundering in the wake of ‘normal’.

There was no denying I had chosen this place. And it felt far Less than any ‘normal’.

As perspective gathered, my eyes opened to precious everyday things.

I began to live in moments, rather than days or weeks. The Ordinariness of it all taught me to appreciate that I was living out of the ordinary, simply by feeling and seeing things that others seemed not to notice or care about.

The need to strive fell away, and with it, the desperate urge for bigger, better.

Contentment snuck in.

The undulation of normal is richly textured with challenging, progressive encounters, tempering thoughts and moments of great beauty.  To bear conspicuous Witness to our microscopic wanderings is liberating.

We watch ourselves fall, but ever more gently, growing the strength to rise and rejoin the flow.

Warmly,

Liv 

Liv Mitchell

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Lisa Mitchell is a teacher of yoga, relaxation and mindfulness and freelance writer.

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